Are Male Massagist Ideal for Woman Clients?

By TaylR Goes Remote | 

Attention Ladies! 

We need to talk SPA really quick. What's the first thing that comes to mind when someone says, "Would you like a female or male." Are you automatically picking the girl. Or are you feeling like a dare devil and going for the more erotic route - the male.

Let's discuss how this topic aroused from my first massage

moment with a man. 

My first time getting a massage at Platinum Beauty Bar and Spa was a rather interesting experience. I remember being late for my appointment and being offered a man. If I didn't accept, then I would have to be on the waiting list longer. And you know what I did, I took the man! It wasn't my first choice, but I ended up enjoying it.

LET'S GET INTO IT

The lights were dimmed and dark...Obviously. Just finished recording my content video. I wasn't nervous, more so curious on where and how I should stick my face in that massage bed cushion - I mean it was my first time after all. My masseur (male) was actually blind in one eye. He was nice and kept his distance appropriately. You know in the movies when the actors are squished in that massage bed, and their kids would crawl under to look up at them like "hey mom, hey dad!" That was me. 

Girl, his hand were heavy, but in a relieving the stress away, kind of way. The music playing in the back made a genuine enhance for the neck and foot massages. I didn't feel uncomfortable at all, it actually felt good. Mind you, you can always ask them to be lighter on their hands. But being that I worked two 12-hour shifts, I figured I needed it. The masseur played some of the songs he made, and we had a nice conversation throughout. No distractions, Peace, Intimate Setting; You can say this intensified my peace of mind and fantasm.

Honestly, my standards went all the way pass the rooftops. This is how a man should treat a lady, you need to include sensational massages. If you're not doing this, please get out of my life; Or for the gentleman in relationships, your partner's life, thank you. The massage did cost a pretty penny for a 60-minute session, but I didn't mind.

When I shared my experience, I literally got bashed for letting a man massage my body. I never thought that was thing to avoid as a woman. I mean, I'm single, so what's crazy about that? Have they ever heard of free will?

TOPIC VIEWPOINT

So Ladies, after hearing this, single or not, did you EVER let a man touch your body? If so, how was the experience, was it weird or was it actually nice. Maybe you had a friend who confessed her time under a masseur's hand, did you judge her or were you happy for her? At the end of the day, I feel like massages are meant for us to break down our walls to relax - that's what they're meant for anyway. Take gender out the picture and JUST GET A MASSAGE GIRL!

HOW MASSEURS IGNITE YOUR LOVE SPECTER

An interesting fact to know, massages cause our brain to release a love hormone. So that daring erotic route with probably a masseur or masseuse (female) can ignite your bonding, composure, and fantasm.

As expressed in SELF, an article by Ro White it reads "sexy massage offers even more opportunities for intimacy... including massage, causes our brains to release oxytocin, a.k.a. the 'love hormone', so an erotic massage is the perfect recipe for bonding, relaxation, and arousal—possibly even a better sex life." Now granite, this article is kina explicit, but it jets backs to what I explained for the benefits of a well round massage. You need to allow yourself to embrace your mental and physical connection, it's better if you make it a routine. Enhance your emotions, and evolve as a woman, c'mon!

Oh, and if you're wondering what fantasm means, its described in many ways.

• An apparition or specter.
• A creation of the imagination or fancy; fantasy.
• A mental image or representation of a real object.
• An illusory likeness of something.

Basically, your way of creating a fantasy world for yourself.

Now all this talk about massages is getting me tense, I'm going to book my next appointment a.s.a.p. But a reminder to all the ladies, take gender out the picture and GO GET THAT MASSAGE GIRL!

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